UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS.....

So I've been thinking,...I know I'm a female myself.....however, I don't get "some" girls at all!!! I mean I am more friendly and relate well with boys better than girls(of which, has gotten me in a lotta trouble..that's another rant for another day)....I can honestly say that I'm really scared of most GIRLS!!!....once you offend them..hoo your whole life's secrets; out!! just like that!! hmm??

I have deliberately, been conscious of making more Girlfriends than Boyfriends in any social gathering I find myself!!! But no matter how/ what I did..girls just weren't having it...there were a few exceptions though,..those exceptions, were girls who shared my exact sentiments on most girls too!!!

If it's not your hair, then it's your clothes, or maybe it's your shoes...or it could be that you smiled too much or something!!! or it's your confidence or aura or self esteem...oh maybe it's that some guy they secretly like, likes you instead....or it could be that they don't like your walk!! or how you talk, or maybe because you painted your nails black or slime.....or oohhh it could be that, when you sing in the choir for the Lord....they get the impression that "she thinks she knows how to sing"..but she actually doesn't.....or it could be that they hate your nice car or raggedy one.....
or they Just DON'T LIKE YOU!! PERIOD!!!........

At least the ones that just don't like you, show it!!! !!
How about the so called FRIENDS who act like a friend..but deep inside, they passionately HATE YOU!!! I'm talking about "unfriendly friends" (if there's a phrase like that..permit my usage), who are just friends with you for just having a friend sake......but the purpose of the whole friendship is to COMPETE with you.......I believe that such friends are VERY DANGEROUS!! They'd kill one if they had the chance to!!! hmmm I fear ooh!!!!.....

Well, I love my friends and the "unfriendly" ones who I don't know of...I mean what can you do, but to Love!!! right?....as the Yoruba proverb/adage says; the enemy outside is better than the one within!!!

I sign off by saying again: God please protect me from "my FRIENDS" I can handle my enemies!!!! ................free to put your two cents!!!!

How Life works..

It was my birthday a few days ago, and I guess I'm just thankful to God for keeping me!!! I'm grateful Lord!!!...And I'm so grateful to everyone who called or sent me a a b/day wish one way or the other...even the so called enemies!!! As the bible says: when a man's ways are pleasing to God, HE makes his enemies to be at peace with him...hmm thank You God!!!

It is so funny how Life works, sometimes it scares me!! I have learnt that in life, whatever you do, no matter what it is, or how little or in-significant, there are repercussions for them!!!, this has in a way given me more humility, so to speak.

I got another opportunity, to do some reflection, this time mainly on who I am, and my support system, GOD. I mean seriously these past weeks have been something else, without HIM, I literally don't know what would've become of me!!!

So, I found out that I need God to: PROTECT ME FROM MY FRIENDS, I CAN HANDLE MY ENEMIES......